Irresistible Ways To Make Women Fall For You

Irresistible Ways To Make Women Fall For You

“I don’t get it!…”

“I’ve got a nice car.  I’m accomplished.   I even wear the latest Armani! Why isn’t she into me? Why am I always alone??”

STOP!

How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette asking yourself  this persistent question?

Irresistible Ways To Make Women Fall For You….The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.  If you think you’re unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.

But don’t despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:  Just remember you can be the irresistible guy in her life.  Just keep reading and keep your cool.

1) Dress to Kill – all the time:  No you don’t need to wear $5000 suits to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time you hit the streets.  Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Gentlemen, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you’re missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.  www.classysuits4men.com 

2) Bedroom Eyes – When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the  growing attraction.  Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of a woman’s face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils will naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.

3) Visual Caress – Get your eyes to do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across those lashes and rest upon the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!

4) Easter Eggs – Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for Easter eggs as you talk.  These are unusual words or phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it.  Say “What’s the story behind that?” or “How do you feel about that?”. Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings. Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.

5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged – Men talk facts:  stock figures,  bill payments, and boring engine specs.  Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK:  how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away.  Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You’ll be her new confidant!

I know what you’re thinking. It’s all common sense! That’s true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.

Get out there and be the man women loves. Use your common sense!

Are you in love?

Are you in love?

So you think that you are in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think that you are in love? Why do you think that it is not temporary attraction? Why do you think that you both are destined to grow old together? Let us try and find out.

Do you feel happy with your beloved? Do you feel that if you both were left alone on an island for seven days, you would enjoy it? Or you will get bored? How about your self esteem? Does your beloved make you feel good about yourself? Is his/her focus on your good qualities or sometimes faults? What about you? Are you looking for some signs of weaknesses in certain areas, or are contented and satisfied with the whole package?

Love is different than any other relationship and has its own measures. It goes beyond friendship and one has to ask questions to find out if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our inquiry, what if your beloved gets you some clothes? Will you be delighted and wear immediately, or will you try to look at it critically to find out how you will look in that particular piece of clothing?

Do you smile at the thought of your beloved? Get dreamy? Want to share everything good? Say, you see something good, or complete a some work very satisfactorily, will you immediately tell your beloved about that? Will you impatiently wait to share that?

Do you ever compare him/her with others? Give a second look to someone of opposite sex? No? What if the person is stunning in looks? Would you still rather never think of giving a second look and continue with the thoughts of your beloved? What if you go to a movie together? Will you try to look at each other in the darkness or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie at all while you are together?

Are you planning of the future together? Having children, a new home, new life, etc? Do you talk about how you both would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about the career options after marriage?

If your answers to all above queries is in positive, you need to look at the relationship seriously. Because you are in love!
Love is difficult to find out. Many times, we feel that we are in love, only to find out afterwards that it was not love. It is better to make sure that it is love before committing. Wish you all the best.

10 Ways to Sex Up Your Look

What’s sexy without being sleazy?

Adding unexpected touches (a wrapped shirt, a grand exit) and glamorous essentials (red lips, shades).  It’s about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin.  And it’s about choosing more original ways to express your sensuality than by merely donning a micro-mini.

Our get-sexy looks work for any age or budget: some are after-dark only (shoulder-duster earrings), while others can work for daytime (touchable fabrics, hats).
Here’s how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty.

1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way.

It doesn’t have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man’s white shirt (slightly oversized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the over and tuck in.)

2. Do red lipstick.

Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lipliner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; orangey hues for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage.

3. Add a hat.

Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes — the fedora, the beret — to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with shoulder-duster earrings.

Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look.

5. Make it metallic.

Black may be supersexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you’re going for vavoom. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine.

6. Adopt an exotic look.

The cheongsam is a classic example of a dress with international allure. Harem pants, sarongs and embroidered items are all borrowed ethnic looks with tons of feminine charm. The mandarin-collar dress from China is flattering, chic and always intriguing.

7. Wear shades.

Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes.

8. Make a grand exit.

Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects.

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics.

Forget everything you’ve ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suedes are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite another’s touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. Play peekaboo.

No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive.

The rules of Anal Sex

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while masturbating or stimulating a partner’s anus during intercourse or oral sex.   Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger – their own or a lover’s – insinuated into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including heterosexuals, prefer this form of penetration. Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. The very idea disgusts some people. Others enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way.

Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly. The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentration of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can be a source of great pleasure.

When a finger, object or penis is introduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm, as if fighting off an invasion.  Pain will result if the partners do not wait for these muscles to relax. Under sufficient stress they will eventually collapse   and the pain subsides, unless further damage is done. But, any ‘pleasure’ afforded from this kind of activity derives mostly from the absence of discomfort. Maximum anal pleasure requires the elimination of all pain or physical trauma from the anal experience. Self-protection on the part of the passive partner involves being ready to say “no” until he or she is ready to proceed. Readiness is a combination of physical relaxation, usually helped along by plenty of leisurely anal touching, and desire.   Occasionally the anal muscles are relaxes, but the passive partner is still not in the mood. Stimulation should mount only in proportion to the degree of receptivity.

3. Anal sex can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable in the past.   Sufficient desire alone does not necessarily guarantee pleasurable anal sex. Nor is an uncomfortable previous experience always the reason for a lack of interest in or desire for anal sex.  Chronic anal tension is the most common cause of anal discomfort during sex. Hemorrhoids and constipation are usually  a sign of this condition. Tension can be relieved by touching the anus and becoming more familiar with it. An ideal time to explore the anal opening is while taking a shower or bath. Deep breathing also affects the anal muscles.  Tensing the anus; and the letting go; in another way of learning to relax it. Anyone who enjoys masturbation might want to experiment   with some form of anal stimulation, though he or she should stop if any discomfort occurs.  For many people the turning point in anal sex is when they allow a partner to massage the anus with the understanding that intercourse will not be attempted. Then the recipient of anal caresses can concentrate solely on the pleasure that this erogenous zone is capable of generating.

4. Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal opening. Each functions independently.  If you insert a finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the   two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system – just like the muscles of the hand, for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter   whenever you want.  The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic part of the nervous   system, which governs such functions as heartbeat and stress response.  The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Thus, precautions about safety and comfort are essential here. Even if a person does feel comfortable during anal sex, he or she may still need to learn voluntary control over his or her internal sphincter in order to relax it at will. Doing so requires regularly inserting a finger, perhaps in the shower each   day, and feeling the internal sphincter. The muscle changes spontaneously and in response to behavior. In this instance,  simply paying attention is more important than trying to relax. Anyone can gradually learn to control the internal sphincter at will.

5. Anal stimulation provides many kinds of pleasure the highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself. A finger can focus on them especially   effectively. When an object or penis is inserted beyond the anal opening into the rectum, other pleasures are involved.  The outer portion of the rectum, like the vagina, has several nerve endings. The inner portion responds mostly to  pressure.  Some people enjoy the feelings of pressure and fullness once they understand that these sensations do not presage an   impending bowel movement. Rectal pressure is especially important to enthusiasts of “fisting,” a form of anal sex in which several fingers or even the entire hand and forearm are inserted into the rectum and sometimes into the lower colon.

In men, the prostate – which is just beyond the rectal wall, a few inches in, towards the front of the body – can be a source of pleasure when massaged by a finger, an object, or a penis. Also, the lower end of the penis, or “bulb,” is near the anal opening. It is stimulated indirectly by most types of anal sex.  Anal pleasure can be psychological as well as physical. The anal taboo adds to the thrill of the forbidden. The most common anti-anal message (it’s dirty!) sometimes returns as a source of raunchy, sleazy excitement. Rimming enthusiasts   may enjoy the feeling that they are being disgustingly – and delightfully – perverse. Other people regard the anus as a   secret, special place. Sharing it with a partner is an act of openness and giving.

6. Anal stimulation can lead to orgasm a minority of men and women can respond orgasmic ally to anal sex without direct genital stimulation. Women probably   do so through pelvic muscle contractions – and a small minority even though the sheer excitement of being anally  penetrated. When men experience an orgasm from anal stimulation, they tend to focus on the prostate. No doubt they are also responding to indirect stimulation of the penile bulb.   Orgasms from anal stimulation are most likely to occur when the participants become thoroughly absorbed in their sensations and fantasies. An almost certain way to prevent such an orgasm is to be become determined to have one.  Seeking an anal orgasm will create new pressures and disrupt the pleasure.   It must be remembered that most people require direct genital stimulation in order to climax. On the other hand, a few people have orgasms only with anal stimulation.

7. Diet contributes to the enjoyment of anal sex   Regular bowel movements are the major function of the anus and rectum. There must be sufficient fiber in a person’s   diet to make his or her feces soft, bulky and well formed. This allows a bowel movement to be produced without force or effort. Forced evacuations irritate anal tissues, causing discomfort and adding to muscular tensions. Fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains or unprocessed bran are important sources of fiber.

8. Different rules of hygiene apply to the vagina and rectum since intercourse can be vaginal or rectal, many people assume the same rules apply for the penetration of the vagina and rectum. Although both are lined with soft tissue and are capable of expanding, they are radically dissimilar.  The rectum is not straight. After the short anal canal which connects the anal opening to the rectum, the rectum tilts toward the front of the body. A few inches in, it curves back – sometimes as much as 90 degrees. Then, after a few   more inches, it swoops toward the front of the body once again. A person can learn about the shape of his or her rectum by gently inserting a soft object, trying different angles and body positions and concentrating on how it feels.  Make sure the object has a flared base so that if you lose your grip, it won’t slip into the rectum and become irretrievable.   The rectum does not produce lubrication like the vagina but only a small amount of mucus. Therefore, rectal penetration always requires a lubricant. Chemical additives should be avoided. Water-based lubricants are latex-compatible.  The main function of the rectum is to act as a passageway for feces. But feces are not normally stored in the rectum except just prior to a bowel movement. Yet small amounts may remain in the rectum, especially if the feces are not well formed. Anal douching before lovemaking will help some people especially concerned with cleanliness to relax. For others the idea of dirtiness heightens the joy of the forbidden; for them, douching is anti-erotic.

9. Anal intercourse is not necessarily an act of dominance and submission.  The top-bottom imagery associated with anal intercourse is widespread. No doubt the belief that anal sex has to hurt contributes to this notion. And in fact some people are intensely excited by top bottom fantasies about anal sex.  The thought that they are submitting to such a degrading act is a terrific thrill.  However, actual, not fantasized, anal pain can lead to trouble.   For others, the enjoyment of anal Sex is inhibited by top-bottom imagery.  The Idea of surrendering control, and perhaps submitting to humiliation, causes immediate, protective tensing of the anal muscles. These individuals are more likely to relax and enjoy themselves if they can learn to regard anal sex as pleasurable rather than as an expression of power.

10. Anal sex can be perfectly safe, even beneficial.   The taboo against anal eroticism is perpetuated by the almost universal belief among physicians that anal sex is inevitably    dangerous. No physical injury from anal stimulation results if both partners refuse to tolerate pain, never use force and   avoid the use of drugs.   All the other risks center on sexually transmitted diseases. Each of the common STDs – gonorrhea, syphilis, and herpes -   can affect the anus. Intestinal parasites, bacteria or tiny bugs are usually passed along when fecal matter finds its way into someone’s mouth or vagina, most likely through rimming.    AIDS has complicated the matter. The HIV virus can pass from the semen or blood of an infected person to the bloodstream of a partner through a tiny break in the rectal tissue during anal intercourse.   To avoid this risk, anal intercourse and rimming should not be practiced casually. Those who do enjoy anal intercourse should always use a condom. Rimming should always be accomplished by a latex barrier. Of course, in a monogamous relationship with two healthy people, the risk of disease transmitted anally is reduced.   Thousands of men and women with chronic anal medical problems have restored their anal health by challenging their negative attitudes. This approach is indispensable for full erotic enjoyment of the anus.

Benefits of a Clitoral Orgasm

By far the most common way for a woman to regularly reach orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. Before we just into that subject, I think it may help to share with you some information about the clitoris.

The clitoris is located just by the vaginal entrance and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh which contains a high concentration of nerve endings which make it highly sensitive. It is often covered by a clitoral hood. Many people don’t realize that only a small portion of the clitoris is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Two things are particularly interesting about the clitoris. First, all female mammals have a clitoris. This is interesting because the sole purpose, at least according to biologists, of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels.

Second, the clitoris is made from the same material as the penis. In fact, in men the clitoris becomes a full-fledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the penis, the clitoris fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin of a penis.
The only real difference between a clitoris and a penis – besides location in the body – seems to be that the penis is also used for urination while the clitoris is not.

With that said, its important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen. Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse could stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris as well and this can also cause orgasms.

What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually cannot stimulate it. Because of its position in the woman’s body, the ability of the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris is extremely difficult. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

The question is how does one engage in clitoral stimulation. Some male partners take the approach that the women should be responsible for the stimulation themselves, which has always seemed a bit unfair to me since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. However, this is one way to deal with it.

Another method is by, what I like to call multi-tasking. Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris in one way or another (we’ll discuss those ways a little later). If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option.

Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to an alternative approach. One person reaches orgasm at a time. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility but it’s usually not the most satisfactory approach.

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships which may have become less enthusiastic over time.

And the key is experimenting because different women prefer different types of clitoral stimulation. While some prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have masturbated will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

Before I close this article, let’s talk about what happens during a clitoral orgasm. As I mentioned above, the clitoris feels up with blood and becomes erect like a penis. This means its usually easier to spot when a woman is aroused. Because the clitoris does not need to be erect for sexual intercourse to occur, clitoral orgasms will only happen if the woman is aroused properly. That means some type of foreplay is generally a requirement. When the clitoris is stimulate repeatedly, it becomes more engorged with blood and this further heightens its sensitivity. With another stimulation a point is reached when all of the tension in the area must be released and this point is considered the orgasm.

Conversation Starters For First Dates

When dating, there really isn’t such a thing as a dating pro. First dates will always be intimidating, and to make it less daunting, you should be able to know the right things to say. It’s really difficult to say that everyone would prefer the same first date conversation topics. But to give you an idea of the whole picture, remember that your date is no different from you.

When dating, there really isn’t such a thing as a dating pro. First dates will always be intimidating, and to make it less daunting, you should be able to know the right things to say. It’s really difficult to say that everyone would prefer the same first date conversation topics. But to give you an idea of the whole picture, remember that your date is no different from you. If you think that you have no idea what first date conversation topics he or she would prefer, your date will have the same predicament. Both of you actually share the same fears.

Here are a few first date conversation topics that you might want to explore.

As a first date conversation topic, start by complimenting on your date’s outfit. To compliment on what your date is wearing is to make him or her feel good about themselves. Should you be able to ask where he or she bought it, you will learn something about his or her clothing style and preferences.

You can ask your date how his or her day has been. This first date conversation topic will soon progress to what he or she does for a living. Asking your date how he or she got to this position is a foolproof first date conversation topic. It will allow you to find out what things he used to do before landing his or her present job. ‘What if’ questions are also good first date conversation topics. You can ask him or her what he or she is doing now and if he or she could have any job anywhere in the world, what would it be.

Ask your date where he or she lives and has lived. This first date conversation topic will let you end up in the name-game and find out if you have common friends or acquaintances. You will discover how great bonding element this would be.

You can also ask your date where he or she would really like to live for the rest of his life. This first date conversation topic will tell you so much about his or her long-term plans.

Other first date conversation topics can range from questions about your date’s family, current events topics, or even what he or she likes doing on weekends or as a hobby.
Your date’s responses to your questions on the first date conversation topics you choose will take you from there. These first date conversation topics can be very handy for those uncomfortable silences.

Remember to try your best to overcome the jitters. Just be yourself. If you try to be someone you are not, it will not make things better. Do remember also that you need to carry out the conversation the right way.

You may know as many first date conversation topics as you do, but if you don’t understand how to carry on a conversation that will make your date attracted to you, then what you talk about wouldn’t matter at all. That’s because the woman you’re talking to won’t feel the sincerity you wish to convey.

Be sensitive to your date’s responses to the first date conversation topic you strike. Show him or her you are interested in what he or she has to say through your body language and eye contact. A good sense of humor will do wonders to those first date conversation topics. Learn how to flirt as well and be able to learn how to deal with his or her questions also. Avoid sending mixed messages. Most of all, be comfortable with your first date conversation topic. That way, there won’t be any chance for you to be nervous at all, because you did not only handle the what, but the how as well.

After The First Date

The time after the first date can be a very emotional experience. The excitement of what to do next can be racing through someone’s mind. These emotions are magnified even further if the date was a success. This however is a time to slow down and play it cool. The last thing anyone wants to do is scare of a potential Mr or Mrs right.

The time after the first date can be a very emotional experience. The excitement of what to do next can be racing through someone’s mind. These emotions are magnified even further if the date was a success. This however is a time to slow down and play it cool. The last thing anyone wants to do is scare of a potential Mr or Mrs right.

There are many excited singles longing to reach for the phone at the first opportunity. Getting to know someone doesn’t need to be achieved within a few days, it’s a process that needs to take time. The relationship needs space to breath. A day or two after the first date is a perfect time to collect thoughts, and as they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

When you do get around to that first phone call remember to stay relaxed and don’t come across as being infatuated. Try to get a sense of how the date went for the other person. When the time is right mention how the date went for you, and see what type of response you get. If it’s a positive one you have the option of talking about another date, or playing it cool a little longer. Maybe call them again in another couple of days, but still leave them with the feeling that you are very interested. You don’t want to give them the impression you are not as this could put doubts in their mind.

The next call should be about the second date if you haven’t mentioned it in the previous call. Arrange a quiet place for the date so you can still chat in comfort, and get to know them a bit more.

As the dates progress, adding fun to them can bring two people closer. Trying an activity for the first time like bowling can create some humor. Learn to laugh together, it’s a very romantic emotion.

The time after your first date can be an exciting, emotional experience. Remember to relax, play it cool, and don’t come across as being infatuated, and everything should run along smoothly.

10 Tips for a Successful First Date

Here’s some tips for going on a first date to help you make sure that you’re taking your relationship where you want it to go.

1. Take her somewhere that you go often. You’ll give yourself a lot of credibility and value if you take her to place where everyone knows you. Stop and chat with the staff there. Learn their names and make sure they know yours. It only says good things about you. If you don’t have a place like this yet, make one.

2. Take her to an interesting restaurant. It’s a lot more fun to go eat sushi or some type of authentic ethnic food than just going to a more common restaurant. You don’t want it too be so interesting that there’s always something crazy going on and you can’t talk to her. Just make sure it is a little different.

3. Relax. The more you relax and show that you’re comfortable, the more your date will relax. If you feel like you’re getting nervous or tense, just take a deep breath, relax your shoulder muscles and smile. Just focus on having a good time.

4. Get rid of your expectations. So many guys that I meet wrap expectations around everything they do. They think, “buying dinner = she’s going to be my girlfriend or wife.” If you just spend the time that you’re together having a good time, acting like you would around someone you already know well and show that you couldn’t care less if anything happens between the two of you, you’ll have a much better chance of progressing things than if you act like she’s the first girl you’ve seen in twenty years, acting really nervous and so dumb that she runs away.

5. Don’t talk about normal boring topics or “guy topics”. If you want to be like every other boring guy out there, talk about what job she has, where she has gone to or goes to college. Only talk about guy topics like sports, lifting weights or something like that if SHE is already very interested in them. Also, don’t cling to a topic like it’s the only thing you can talk about. If a conversation dies, let it go.

6. Have a story or two that you can tell if you run out of things to say. One of the best ways to keep a conversation going is to have a few stories that you can tell at any time. When the conversation stops, just say, “Anyway,” and go into a story. The story doesn’t have to be something too amazing, just a little bit different.

Tell a story about a date that you went on where your date did something embarrassing or funny. Women love to talk about relationships and I’ve found that they are the easiest to come up with. If you’re having problems, just grab a girly magazine and read it for 15 minutes. You should find more than enough things to talk about in there.

7. Know a little bit about a lot of things.You can ask me about almost anything and I probably know enough about it to talk for at least 5 minutes. The more you know about, the easier it will be to hold conversations on just about any topic.

8. If your date wants to talk, listen to her. People like to talk and get the feeling that what they have to say is important. This doesn’t mean that you should ask her endless questions trying to get her to talk. If she’s not talking, feel free to. But, don’t interrupt her if she is.

9. Don’t try to impress your date. One of the worst things a guy can do is talk about how much money he has, what kind of a car he drives or anything else that comes across as trying hard to impress. If you do have a cool house or car, let her find out when she sees it. And if she isn’t impressed by it, don’t be surprised. You’re much better off by just being a relaxed, fun, cool guy than you are trying to impress her.

10. Have a plan. You should have your date planned in advance. And although you should have it planned, you should also be flexible. If something comes up that could be a lot of fun, don’t be so rigid that you can’t change plans. Your plan should be more of a guideline so that you always have something to do.

Murphy's Sex Law

  1. The more beautiful the woman is who loves you, the easier it is to leave her with no hard feelings.
  2. Nothing improves with age.
  3. No matter how many times you’ve had it, if it’s offered take it, because it’ll never be quite the same again.
  4. Sex has no calories.
  5. Sex takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble.
  6. There is no remedy for sex but more sex.
  7. Sex appeal is 50% what you’ve got and 50% what people think you’ve got.
  8. No sex with anyone in the same office.
  9. Sex is like snow; you never know how many inches you are going to get or how long it is going to last.
  10. A man in the house is worth two in the street.
  11. If you get them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow.
  12. Virginity can be cured.
  13. When a man’s wife learns to understand him, she usually stops listening to him.
  14. Never sleep with anyone crazier than yourself.
  15. The qualities that most attract a woman to a man are usually the same ones she can’t stand years later.
  16. Sex is dirty only if it’s done right.
  17. It is always the wrong time of month.
  18. The best way to hold a man is in your arms.
  19. When the lights are out, all women are beautiful.
  20. Sex is hereditary. If your parents never had it, chances are you won’t either.
  21. Sow your wild oats on Saturday night – Then on Sunday pray for crop failure.
  22. The younger the better.
  23. The game of love is never called off on account of darkness.
  24. It was not the apple on the tree but the pair on the ground that caused the trouble in the garden.
  25. Sex discriminates against the shy and the ugly.
  26. Before you find your handsome prince, you’ve got to kiss a lot of frogs
  27. There may be some things better than sex, and some things worse than sex.
  28. But there is nothing exactly like it.
  29. Love your neighbor, but don’t get caught.
  30. Love is a hole in the heart.
  31. If the effort that went in research on the female bosom had gone into our space program, we would now be running hot-dog stands on the moon.
  32. Love is a matter of chemistry, sex is a matter of physics.
  33. Do it only with the best.
  34. Sex is a three-letter word which needs some old-fashioned four-letter words to convey its full meaning.
  35. One good turn gets most of the blankets.
  36. You cannot produce a baby in one month by impregnating nine women.
  37. Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
  38. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
  39. Thou shalt not commit adultery…..unless in the mood.
  40. Never lie down with a woman who’s got more troubles than you.
  41. Abstain from wine, women, and song; mostly song.
  42. Never argue with a women when she’s tired — or rested.
  43. A woman never forgets the men she could have had; a man, the women he couldn’t.
  44. What matters is not the length of the wand, but the magic in the stick.
  45. It is better to be looked over than overlooked.
  46. Never say no.
  47. A man can be happy with any woman as long as he doesn’t love her.
  48. Folks playing leapfrog must complete all jumps.
  49. Beauty is skin deep; ugly goes right to the bone.
  50. Never stand between a fire hydrant and a dog.
  51. A man is only a man, but a good bicycle is a ride.
  52. Love comes in spurts.
  53. The world does not revolve on an axis.
  54. Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation; the other eight are unimportant.
  55. Smile, it makes people wonder what you are thinking.
  56. Don’t do it if you can’t keep it up.
    56.There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love.
  57. Never go to bed mad, stay up and fight.
  58. Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.

 

Sexy Lingerie – A beginners Guide

Say sexy lingerie and most people will think of black and red lacy peep-hole bras and crotchless panties! However, this concept is such a poor representation of what sexy lingerie is and what it does.

It can transform a normal body into one that would befit a model or actress and the physiological effects can make even more of a transformation! Read on.

Gone are the days when sexy lingerie was something that was bought by a woman or man to enhance sex  nowadays, it does so much more.

Certainly, items such as silky baby dolls; pretty, colourful bras and knickers; suspenders; lacy teddies etc can enhance the experience of making love, but now women are seeing more to the picture that just that.

Sexy underwear is steadily becoming a staple part of a woman’s normal day wear. Under many a suited, working woman you’ll see a hint of lacy bra or extra sheer stockings that give the lady a certain oommpph.

Not only does the wearing of sexy lingerie exude sexuality (sometimes unbeknown to the lady in question), wearing sensuous, pretty/ racy underwear can boost a woman’s confidence in her body ten-fold.

The good news is that today’s sexy lingerie is no longer uncomfortable, scratchy and unpractical. Fluid lines, top quality lace and silk and other sensual

materials, and, most important, a style suited for today’s woman (as opposed to yesterday’s stick insect shape) means they are like a second skin  - and a very flattering one at that.

Voluptuous  ladies   - are now catered for when it comes to choosing pretty, sexy, lacy undies!

Push up bras can make the most of an ample (or tiny) breast whilst lacy boy pants can flatter a round belly and cuddly bottom whilst thongs can show of sexy legs.

Wearing beautiful, sexy underwear cannot help but have a positive mental effect on the wearer  and a more confident, happy person will radiate this and reap the rewards.

The key to make the most of wearing sexy lingerie is to focus on a part of your body that is beautiful and we all have at least one.   Even if it is hidden under your suit, or a t shirt and jeans, you know that you are wearing .. and then so will other people!